Paying Respects on the Bridge
Many drivers on the Brooklyn Bridge have no idea who Ari Halberstam is. And that’s precisely why the signs are there.
By SAM ROBERTS, New York Times
The metal signs are impossible to miss. They are oversize, in a bold
blue usually found on signs directing drivers to the nearest hospital.
And there are lots of them — 13 in all, according to the city’s count —
along a quarter-mile stretch of roadway and its approaches.
In fact, probably no thoroughfare in New York City is better identified
than the ramp connecting the southbound Franklin D. Roosevelt Drive to
the Brooklyn Bridge. The signs all say the same thing: "Ari Halberstam Memorial Ramp."
Many drivers no doubt have no idea who that is. And that’s precisely why the signs are there.
On March 1, 1994, Ari Halberstam was shot on the ramp as he and other
yeshiva students were returning to Brooklyn in a van from a vigil for
the ailing Lubavitcher rebbe, Menachem Mendel Schneerson. Ari died five
days later. He was 16.
The shooting was considered an act of terrorism. Prosecutors said the
gunman, Rashid Baz, a Lebanese immigrant who is serving a 141-year
prison sentence for the attack, was retaliating for the massacre
several days earlier of Muslim worshippers in the West Bank by a Jewish
settler from Brooklyn.
Ari’s mother, Devorah Halberstam, was intent on keeping her son’s legacy alive, even as his killing has receded from memory.
In 1995, the City Council, sympathetic to her loss and to the larger
symbolism of the killing and mindful of the political clout of the
Hasidic community, formally named the ramp in Ari Halberstam’s memory.
But the tribute went far beyond the usual street namings that honor
fallen police officers, veterans, victims of 9/11 and others who
usually get a green-and-white ceremonial street sign below the one with
the original name.
While nobody questions Miss Halberstam’s motivation, the unusual scope
of the sign tribute has raised questions from some city officials and,
occasionally, the curiosity of passing motorists. When several of the
signs were removed a few years ago to make room for warnings that the
bridge was under police surveillance, the ensuing outcry prompted City
Hall to back down.
Kenneth K. Fisher was one of the councilmen who introduced the name-change bill, which passed, 49 to 0.
“It was real statement by the Council and by the mayor that this was
not simply a case of road rage,” he said. Ari’s mother, he said, “was a
very effective advocate for the notion that her son’s murder should be
recognized, and she happened to come from a particularly politically
active sect. Do there need to be quite as many markers indicating where
the incident occurred? That was done by the transportation commissioner
at the time. The legislation didn’t specify that.”
Christine C. Quinn, the Council speaker, said 13 signs might be excessive, “but at some point you need to get the message out.”
Christopher R. Lynn, the city’s transportation commissioner at the time, said the signs were a compromise.
“You couldn’t rename the bridge,” he said.
The deal was engineered, in part, by Randy M. Mastro, who was Mayor
Rudolph W. Giuliani’s chief of staff. “The least the city could do is
to honor his memory with a few signs where that tragedy occurred so we
never forget,” Mr. Mastro said. Mr. Lynn said he made the final
decision. “I remember telling Rudy, ‘When you take that curve, you
don’t see the sign,’ ” he recalled. “He said, ‘I trust your instinct.’
So I put up around seven.” The seven signs are on the ramp itself, he
said; others are on the approaches to the ramp.
Miss Halberstam said that “the number and where they were placed was decided not by me.”
But since the signs were put in place, she has been quite protective. A
few years ago, outraged after she noticed that some signs were missing,
apparently replaced by the police surveillance signs, she sent an
e-mail message to Deputy Mayor Patricia E. Harris.
“I just crossed the bridge and there are three signs missing on the
ramp,” she wrote in the message, a copy of which was obtained through a
Freedom of Information request. “Who did this? Who dishonored my son’s
memory? What is going on? Who would do this? Who would stab a knife in
my heart like this? Patti, please look into this a.s.a.p. because I
will not have a second of peace until this is corrected and restored.”
Whether and how Ms. Harris responded is unclear, but soon after Miss Halberstam’s plea, City Hall ordered the signs restored.
“Once the signs are put up,” Miss Halberstam said in an interview, “they should not be taken down.”
From time to time, Miss Halberstam, who was divorced from her husband
after their son’s death, said she gets complaints about the signs.
“You hear some negative comments: ‘Why was it done for Ari?’ ” she
said. “The reason I wanted this wasn’t just because he was my child.
Ari represented an innocent victim of terrorism. He was murdered as an
American citizen and because he was clearly identified as a Jew.”
Besides her role in the signs and a Web site, arihalberstam.com, Miss
Halberstam works for the Jewish Children’s Museum in Brooklyn, which
opened in 2005 and whose focus is tolerance and understanding; it is
dedicated in her son’s memory. She has also worked with law enforcement
officials on gun control and combating terrorism.
“She has taken a tragedy — the most horrible tragedy a parent can go
through,” and turned it into something meaningful, said David M.
Pollock, associate executive director of the Jewish Community Relations
Council of New York.
Councilman Lewis A. Fidler, a Brooklyn Democrat and a friend of Miss
Halberstam, said: “Most people under those circumstances retreat into
hate, anger, bitterness or loss of faith. This woman has built a
children’s museum.”
The signs leading to the bridge will always remain precious to Miss
Halberstam, though she realizes that the shooting is largely forgotten,
particularly after 9/11.
“The first years everybody remembered,” she said. “We’re up to the
second and third generation, and people are saying, ‘Who was Ari
Halberstam?’ ” Perhaps, she mused, another sign, with more details
about what happened, could be put up on the bridge itself.
In the meantime, work on the ramp is scheduled to begin in a few
months. City officials vow that not a single sign will be touched.
















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